28.04.2006

The price of 4 children-5  thousand  soms ?

"To whom that the child a handicap, to whom that happiness ". Some people ask the God about the child, some people wish to get rid about the alive child, extinguish the family center. And then write off it on destiny and love.
Aiganyl Mamerova is 31 years old. Mother of 4 children. Once  she was keeper  of the family center, and had the house. Now  her house  is  destroyed  by lightning, children have remained without the father,  she without the husband, cries and does not know, what to do.
"I  went  to school a year earlier. Studied on one five, and dreamed to become the teacher since the childhood. In 1991 has left school, and not having entered the university, began to work in the next village  as teacher on the mathematician. The director of studies of school Askarbek Akmatov in 1993 married me to son Bakyt Akmatov. As appears, that  to not taken away in army,  he was married. She obeyed destiny,  and live in  village Kok-Alma of Bazarkorgon region. Then they moved in Jalal-Abat , studied at University, senior daughter Ajperi was born, , now  she  is  12 years old. The husband uneducated,  worked as  the driver. We have together gone to Russia, worked both in a heat and in a cold, and helped  his relatives. Have stopped trade and with good money have come back home. I wished to buy the house, and the husband  has  not agreed, have bought  a car  " Audi ", and  he began to work as the taxi driver. Meanwhile , at us children were born: Adilet, Omurbek, Esen, Beknazar. Omurbek ,Esen  - twins, Omurbek has died. We lived happily with children.Till that moment, when the husband communicated with Akylai Karabaeva  from "Kyrgyzpochta ", and the happiness  has left the  home.  Comes drunk,  kicks me and  children  and beat.  I did not know what to do and  went Akylai  and  she speaks
" between us  there is nothing, your husband has taken 5 thousand soms  and does not return. We communicate only in occasion of money ". To me speaks one, to the husband another!

I  went  to director of  "Kyrgyzpochta ",  is at a lost. The  real  scandal has begun in February, 2005. Beknazar was 1, 5 years.  I sat at home, have come  Akylai ,  was  drunk.  She called  me for a threshold when I have  come  the husband has told to me that I sat down in the  car.  I have sat down behind,  Akylaj ahead. We have left on waste ground and have strongly sworn. The husband   have strongly kicked  me.  Instead of separating us,  he speaks "it serves you right "!  I came home all in bruises, and the husband has left with  Akylai.  On the next morning has come Akylai , at home  was the father-in-law. He told her : " it is not necessary, do not destroy family,"," I need not Bakyt , let money will give ". The father-in-law has told: " I shall   pay". Next day the husband has come with Akylai , and has taken away the things, at all has not looked at children. I have asked, if I shall work, what with children happens? ",  he has told " do, that you want ". Has passed a few time when has come home, I have told " the car belongs me  " and have taken away keys, in 3-4 days  he have come home and have kicked , threatened with a knife, have beaten children and have taken away keys. I have  called  from village the father-in-law and the mother-in-law,  on  15-May they have arrived. On a body there was no alive place, they have told: " let’s go with us to village , have taken “Audi" at Bakyt , have shipped things and have left. Mother-in-law told to Bakyt: " do not come  home, or normally live with family. " Has turned out him. In one week, they send  me  to city in hospital. They to me have deceived, when I have left, have  called Bakyt, have given the  car , and married  him on Akylai. In their opinion, Akylai have  money.
Soon I have heard, that they were friends  during 4  years, I did not know. When I have arrived to village, parents of the husband: "We did not marry them, you  can live at home ". I have thrown 3 boys, has taken the girl and has arrived to city. Parents of the husband have told, that will bring up, now 3  children in 3 different places. I have very much become bored on children. I wish to live with them as mother, but to bring up 4 very difficultly. I have called to the husband,  he talked  with me reluctantly. If Akylai  has not met on a way of the husband, we would live easy and happily. I wished to divorce, and to demand the alimony .Came specially in "Agym", I want, that all have learned my story. The girls , as Akylai , who destroy families, will be  punished by the God - speaks  Aijanyl . What will tell in future  Bakyt Akmatov , 1973 year  of a birth, the inhabitant of village Kok-Alma  of Bazarkorgon  region to  12 years old Aiperi, 9 years old Adilet,  6 years old Esen , 2 years old Beknazar.
Jyldyz Musabekova.